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What to" notice" about her wonder: it's not her natural attractiveness The normal tendency of a man to catch the eye of a lady is to love her beauty. However, the thing is, girls know their beauty can draw in a man, but her beauty alone cannot make any relationship. In the end, she will be enamored with a guy who likes her for more than her looks.

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Silly can fix a bathroom. However, the truth was, Mr. Big was not a dishonest guy- he was a hopeful guy. He travelled through life expecting it would work out, and because of him, it did. And maybe I needed some of the optimistic Do not Worry, Be Joyful in my life right now.

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